Cindy's Quote of the Day!

"MEN THINK MONOGAMY IS SOMETHING YOU MAKE FURNITURE OUT OF!"

Hypnosis

So I was watching an episode of LA Ink and Kat was hypnotized to stop smoking. How great would it be if we could hypnotize our men to always be faithful! "The only woman you will find attractive is your wife. You will never have the urge to sleep with another woman. The only woman that you will ever want is your wife. You will worship the ground she walks on." Wow, how much money could be made if someone would actually hypnotize our men to treat us right?? Just a thought...I would love it!

Happy Halloween!!

The "Happy" Couple!

Top 5 Reasons Men Cheat!

1. Your Man Is Bored!
2. Your Man Needs A Challenge!
3. Your Man Is No Longer Attracted To You!
4. Your Man Wants To Be Wanted!
5. Your Man Hates A Nagging Woman!

Its unfortunate that the world is full of home wrecking sluts who are willing to sleep with our men! But thats life. So what are you going to do about it?? You have got to keep him interested in you. Let your hair down and have some fun. Let him see the woman he feel in love with again. Go get your nails done. Or go and get that trendy hairstyle you saw in the magazine. Start going to the gym again. Let your man know that you still think hes sexy and how much you appreciate him. All of these things will stop your man from straying. Get him interested in a new hobby; such as four wheeling or bowling; it will keep him busy and he won't get bored! Start challenging your man before another woman does!

Now its your turn! Give me your top 5! I can't wait to hear your ideas!

Love at First Sight!

Rocky and I met 9 years ago in Ocean City, Maryland. It was love at first sight. Me and a few of my girlfriends were on vacation together. Rocky was staying in the same hotel as we were. I was 20 and he was 21 at the time. Me and my friends were coming off of the beach when Rocky asked us if we would like to go have a drink with him and his friend. I said no because I was not old enough to drink yet. (Well at least not old enough to get into the bar.) So we decided we all meet up later that night at the hotel and hang out. Rocky and I had an instant connection. I fell hard for him right away. He had all the right lines; a real smooth talker. And wow was he gorgeous! Turns out, Rocky was from upstate New York. I was intrigued! We eventually had to go our seperate ways but our relationship did not stop there. We kept in touch on the telephone after that. Two weeks later Rocky threw his clothes in a black trash bag and was on his way to Maryland. He got a hotel room and started to look for work right away. He was determined to be with me. I couldn't believe that a man would pick up and move that far just to be with me. At the time I was living with my father and my step mom. Once Rocky arrived in Maryland I started staying the night with him. Needless to say my father was not pleased. What father would be? My dad was so angry that he took my car away. It was in his name but I was paying the bill. At that point he told me that I had to have a curfew and I was not allowed to stay with Rocky. Being the rebellious child that I was, I chose to move out. About a month later Rocky and I decided to move to New York and live at his mothers house until we could afford our own apartment. This is where our story begins!

Welcome to my blog!

Hello Everyone! My name is Cindy. I am a 29 year old working mother and wife and I've been cheated on! What man in his right mind would cheat on a cute, intelligent, sweet woman? Mine would! How about yours?? Unfortunately this happens all the time! I've created this blog for those women who have been cheated on and who just need someone to talk to about it. Men and women are equally welcome to join in and share comments and ideas about why you think men cheat. I look forward to hearing your stories! My husband Rocky cheated on me numerous times with every possible stereotype you could think of. First was the 36 year old bar whore; next was my best friend; then came the secretary; the neighbor; and oh yeah, did I mention the daycare provider? Needless to say, she did not get a very good reference from me! Somehow, despite all the drama, we managed to stay together and are still madly in love. I do believe that some men can change. My story is proof of that...now lets here yours!